The less we are mesmerized by human voices, the more we are able to hear the Divine Voice. -Richard Foster in Prayer
Sometimes it’s better to just be silent. To listen. To dwell. To hear (To know).
It’s a practice not easily learned for all. It was not an easy lesson for me.
As a young man, I would often argue with my dad and others. Now that he is gone, I wish I would have listened more and offered less. I thought I always had the right answer. “Get a little bit of ‘Schooling’” he’d say, “and you think you know it all!” Man I wish I had those times back.
I feel that way too about many of the men and women I’ve been around. In small groups, Sunday School or many other environments, I would usually be the first to offer something. I would “pose” as though I knew something and rattle off all types of things. I wanted to be known as smart; someone you should listen to. More of an ‘arm chair’ stance rather than coming from a place of experience or even knowledge sometimes. I would even out right lie in order to seem smart.
Like I said, it took many years to learn to be silent. It took a lot of pain and hurt. Many people I hurt and many people who hurt me because of my offerings at an untimely moment.
Over the last several years I have been on the journey to master the discipline of silence. There is still much to learn and it is not easy, but I am having some success (or so I am told). With that silence, God is granting me wisdom (too, a journey) where now I am learning to offer words from a place of experience and knowledge, referring to someone who knows about a certain subject when need be or plainly saying, “I don’t know?”
Wow… how much pressure it takes off a person when they don’t have to have “all the answers.” It’s great to be a part of a community like New Wilderness Adventures where I can be “me.” Being a part of this community has taught me to be “me” everywhere else too. I think Eldredge said in one of his books. “Let the world feel the weight of your glory!”
Being silent has drawn me closer to God too. It’s funny but silence with God is synonymous with “hearing.” It takes unplugging for me to hear most of the time. And hearing, well that is a whole “nother” discipline.
Mother Teresa once said:
We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature - trees, flowers, grass - grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence…. We need silence to be able to touch souls.
Think about Christ. He lived as a carpenter for 30 or so years before He choose to bring His ministry to the front. For me personally, my time has yet to come. I am in the company of great men at NWA as well as the allies around us. I am excited to offer as God allows me to, but I am equally as excited to listen, learn and to hear!
Lord please continue to teach me the wisdom and discipline to be silent and to hear and to know when to offer from a place of wisdom, knowledge and strength!
“Be still, and know that I am God” Psalm 46:10
“Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue.” Provers 17:28
A great resource on this subject is: Power of Your Words by Robert Morris
Tags: Growing Up, Hearing, Silent Learning